Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Shop for Free!


Shop for Free
What is it and why do we do it? The idea of Shop for Free was the brain child of Kristi Simpson. She noticed that the needs of some children were greater than the resources that their families could provide. Because of Kristi’s huge heart and her diligent efforts we began providing this opportunity for all of our children who attend FBCOP on Wednesday’s. The goal of shop for free is to make each child feel special by allowing them to pick out 2-3 gifts for family members. Through the generosity of church members, donations are collected throughout the year. We store these donations and then on our Shop for Free evening we allow children to shop. Church members volunteer to help wrap and label these gifts. It is our desire that each child goes home feeling God’s love and that they are so full of His love that they share it as they give to others. This year Melissa Poole and Laura Akers will be heading up this event.

How can YOU help?
As you can imagine, helping 75+ children shop and wait for their gifts to be wrapped is like herding cats! It is an absolute blast but it is a challenge. So "yes" we could use volunteers. There are 4 ways you can help with this event.
1st you can volunteer.  We need "shoppers" people who help the kids shop in a timely manor, "wrappers" people who wrap the gifts and "room helpers" people who will volunteer to help in a classroom with the Christmas party and activities.
2nd you can donate. We need new or slightly used items for all ages. Toys for boys and girls, gifts for Moms and Dads, etc. 
3rd you can give gift bags of all sizes and white tissue paper.
4th you can provide cookies or individualy wrapped snacks and juice boxes or drinks.
If you would like to volunteer please contact Connie Helmer at chelmer@opfirst.org


Shop for Free & Christmas Party Details & Schedule
6:00- 6:10- In assigned rooms to welcome Kidz and greet parents.
6:10- 6:30- K & 1st go shopping, 2nd & 3rd in their classroom for Christmas party and activities, 4th – 6th 3rd in their classroom for Christmas party and activities
6:35- 6:55- K & 1st in their classroom for Christmas party and activities, 2nd & 3rd go shopping, 4th – 6th 3rd in their classroom for Christmas party and activities
7:00- 7:30- K & 1st in their classroom for Christmas party and activities, 2nd & 3rd in their classroom for Christmas party and activities, 4th – 6th- go shopping

Room Assignments
Kindergarten & 1st- E#25 KidzFloor (2nd floor E building)
2nd – 3rd – E#24 KidzFloor (2nd floor E building)
4th – 6th – Guys in KidZone, Girls in H2H room.
Shopping- 3rd floor E building

This year
 I am both excited and saddened because this year I will not be here for this wonderful event. I am excited because I have the opportunity to go to Haiti with my oldest son (Joshua) and to serve the children in the Orphanage there. I am saddened because the Shop for Free event is one of my favorite events each year. To see the excitement on each child’s face as they pick out that “special” gift for their loved one, to watch as their gift is carefully packaged and then to see the gleam in their eye as they proudly carry it back to their class is absolutely heartwarming! Please pray for my son and I as we get to share God’s love with the children in Haiti. I will be praying for of you!

Thank you for your prayers for the children, the leaders and for my family!

Sincerely,
Skipper Rodgers- Associate Pastor of Children and Families.

Monday, November 26, 2012

"Not It!"


Sitting in a local restaurant this morning enjoying my meal and reading a book. Things are slow and all of the current patrons are well taking care of. The crew and staff begin to congregate and discuss all that is going on in their lives. I tune them out and continue on with my meal and book. All of a sudden I hear one of the staff say "Not It!". First one staff member then another next another would each yell "Not It!" The words ripple through the congregated staff like the beginning of a game of tag on a children's playground. No one wants to be "it"! My attention is drawn into the staff’s conversation. I listen earnestly trying to figure out what they all do not want to do. As I listen I notice that even the cooking crew is becoming part of the "not It" game that is going on. I am intrigued to discover the source of their game. I hear one of the staff say to a crew member, "look out the window." The crew member responds "awe man it’s Mr. Weber ". (For the sake of this article we will call this man Mr. Weber-this is not his real name). Now I have to find a way to look out the window without making it seem obvious that I am listening into their conversation. I lift up my glass, take a drink and then look out the window only to see an old man struggling to get out of his car. This man can best be described as looking like the old man from the movie Up- Carl Frederickson. The staff and the crew continue to discuss this man as he slowly gets out of his car and walks towards the door. Next I hear the staff and crew say things like, "I had him yesterday", "Not Mr. Weber", another staff member says "I’m on break as soon as that door opens". There were several more comments made but you get the picture. No one wanted to see this man and no one wanted to wait on him. He had a reputation that caused great distress among the employees. I continue to watch and listen. Mr. Weber opens the door with difficulty and begins to walk towards the counter. The one staff member quickly does exit to go on break. The kitchen crew all turn their back towards the door. The nearby employees (the ones who could not get away) greet him with a kind “Hello, Mr. Weber.” The loosing waitress walks up to Mr. Weber and says, “Good morning Mr. Weber  How are you today?” He responds with a gruff voice and a nod indicating that he was OK. They continue to have a little small talk and he informs the waitress that he thinks he has pneumonia. She jerks backs and covers her mouth and nose with the inside of her arm and asks if he is contagious. He responds “no” and proceeds to order his food but makes sure that she understands "it is to go!". He gives very precise orders on how he wants his food prepared and packaged. The crew quickly begins preparing his food. There is no more conversation. 
My interest wanes and I return to my meal and continue reading my book. The problem is I cannot get what I just heard and witnessed off of my mind! The situation continues to bother me. I look up to see Mr. Weber collecting his food and paying his bill. He exits the restaurant then the staff quickly resumes discussion of Mr. Weber.  He has come and gone! Soon more people come in and everyone’s attention is drawn away from Mr. Weber and directed towards their individual duties.
As I sit and ponder all that has just occurred I come to the realization that each and every one of us is a Mr. Weber and a staff member to some degree. We all act rudely and disrespectful towards others at times. Maybe we are a Mr. Weber when we've had a bad day or a disappointment or we don’t feel good. Maybe we have a bad thought at the sight of a particular individual because we have had a negative interaction with them. Is this really a good reason to act in a rude or disrespectful way? What would happen if every time we approached the Heavenly Father he was to react like the staff did? What if God were to say to His angles “Oh no here comes so in so, he is always asking for stuff.” It made me think.
As for me this holiday season I want to be “It”! I want to be the one God uses to show His love and kindness to the Mr. Webers of this world. So to all of you out there, please consider joining me. Let’s change the conversation around us from “not it” to “Me”! Let’s show this world what Christmas is all about! Let’s love others like there is no tomorrow! May God bless you this week and may He grant you eyes to see yourself when you are being a Mr. Weber or a complaining employee!
Now “Tag”-“I’m It!”